How to Celebrate Holidays with Your Alzheimer’s Parent

The holidays are usually a time of fun and happy gatherings but when your parent has Alzheimer’s this time of year can become more difficult. According to the Alzheimer’s Association, about 1 in 10 people over age 65 suffer from Alzheimer’s disease. It is important to learn some ways to keep the celebrations upbeat and joyful while not becoming overly stressed. There are some things you can do to help your parent and your whole family enjoy the time spent together during the holidays.

Keep Gatherings Small

Alzheimer’s patients may become overwhelmed easily, especially when there is a lot of activity and a large number of people. To make it easier and more fun for everyone, keep parties to a minimum. Pare down large gatherings and instead opt for smaller, quieter groups. Invite family members or close friends who are comfortable and will help make the get-together special for everyone.

Make It Simple

A simple holiday will go much further towards keeping your loved one happy than a large one that is too ornate. Keep decorations simple and remember to keep them safe as well. You can use décor that represents the holidays without going overboard. You can enlist the help of your loved one to plan holiday gatherings and traditions. Keep in mind that a simpler holiday will be more meaningful, will be less stressful and your parent is more likely to enjoy the time spent together.

Include Your Loved One

Include your loved one in the fun and conversation whenever possible. At the same time, don’t focus all the attention of the party on your parent. Instead, try to find some things that the family can do together. For example, sing songs that your parent will enjoy or tell stories of happy holiday memories you have together. You know your loved one’s personality so you will be able to plan activities that are best suited to him or her.

Be Mindful of Your Parent

Your parent likely has a regular routine. Plan your holiday festivities around your parent’s usual habits so that they are less likely to be challenged by a different schedule. For example, if your parent usually goes to bed at a particular time, don’t schedule a party too late in the evening. Try to keep your parent’s routine as normal as possible and they will be better able to enjoy themselves. The same holds true for outings. Try to keep outside activities to a minimum since this can cause a disruption to your parent’s day.

Don’t Overdo It

The holidays are often about overindulgence. We tend to make too many plans, have too many parties and have too many large meals. These are all things that can cause our parent to become overloaded. Instead, plan for an easier, less hectic season that will be more enjoyable for both you and your parent. You’ll have more time to spend on the important things about the holidays so you will be better able to help your parent through an otherwise taxing period of time.